Whenever I go out to eat and see someone sitting alone, I wonder what their story is…why are they alone? Do they enjoy eating alone? Are they from out of town and do not know anyone? Do they just want some quiet time and enjoy eating alone? I’ve always envied people that feel confident enough to eat alone at a restaurant. For years, I have wanted to try it myself but would chicken out…all the time.
I am not sure why I was so afraid to go to a restaurant and eat alone. Maybe I was embarrassed that I had no one to eat with. Maybe I was afraid that people would judge and try to figure out my story.
One day last month I decided it was time to overcome the fear and just do it. The kids were busy and eating with friends so I decided….what the heck! It was time to face my fear!
I went to a local restaurant. When the hostess looked at me I said “table for 1”. Kinda weird….I must admit. While walking to my table, I felt self conscious that people were looking at me and thinking…why is she alone?
After I sat down at my table, I looked around the restaurant and noticed that I was the ONLY person eating dinner alone. I almost had a panic attack. It felt odd not having anyone to talk to and I noticed how loud everyone was talking. It was hard not to listen to the conversation surrounding me.
I decided to take out my iPhone and go on Twitter. That helped me relax and not feel like I was sticking out like a sore thumb.
The waiter was very professional and made me instantly feel at ease. Within a couple minutes I was actually enjoying my quiet time. I could eat my meal as fast or slow as I wanted. I did not have to talk to anyone or make small talk. I could text or tweet during the entire meal and not offend anyone 🙂
My delicious meal:
I must admit, I enjoyed eating out alone. It look a few minutes to relax and get into the mood but overall it was a very relaxing meal. I will do it again soon!
Ann
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Amy says
I eat out alone, usually take a notebook and enjoy some time to think by myself. One of my favourite things is going to movies alone.
Ann says
Great idea, next time I will take a notebook! I will also go to a movie alone….never done that.
Chrisor says
I feel the same way about eating out alone as you did! Good for you for being willing to try to overcome the fear. I need to do more of that. By going to #BlogHer13 after being so afraid, looking back, I feel empowered! I just love the philosophy of your blog! 🙂
Ann says
I find attending BlogHer is very empowering as well!! Thank you for your comment.
AlwaysARedhead says
I ate out by myself for the first time this past summer and enjoy it too. It’s not something I would do on a regular basis, but once in a blue moon, sure.